I got a text message over the holidays from my brother that I am going to be an aunt. To say the news came out of the blue is to state the obvious, but I was really floored that it came via SMS. Seriously? Have we become such an insta-contact, constantly connected society that this is now acceptable? Every time I think I’ve become inured to the way mobile technology & social networks have changed my life, a new wrinkle comes along to slap me in the face.

I know my brother wasn’t thinking about it that hard. He’s a typical guy and was going for the easy share — texting is a quick and efficient. He’s got a few other things on this mind. However, I firmly believe that some news should be delivered personally. Because in the end it’s not always the delivery of news that matters, it’s the opportunity to share in the experience.

He called me a few days later and I gave him all the ribbing that couldn’t possibly occur in 140 character conversation. A speedy text can never contain a lifetime of big sister’s shtick. If that makes me old-fashioned, then so be it.

I’ve been bitching about Comcast on Twitter this week. My internet connection drops in the middle of day, greatly impacting my productivity. Plus, it’s irritating to pack up and head to my local coffee shop on a regular basis. Coffee shops say “free wifi”, but they want you buy something if you plan to sit at their tables for any length of time.

Anyway, after a few tweets about my situation, I was contacted by @comcastbonnie who offered her help.

@comcastbonnie

She wasn’t specific about how she could help, so after a few public tweets back and forth, she followed me and asked me to DM (direct message) her my phone number.

Now, I don’t know about you, but I don’t give out my phone number to strangers who claim to be customer service representatives for a utility. After all, it wouldn’t take much to create a profile that looked like this:

@comcastbonnie's Twitter profile

@comcastbonnie's Twitter profile

At my reluctance, she told me to Google her or contact @comcastcares (another unverified Twitter account) to see if she was legit. Those Google results aren’t all that, @comcastbonnie! If there’s a company page, you should work harder to make sure it comes out on top. I would have felt better about it if she had directed me straight to her profile on Comcast. Would it be too much trouble for the company to give their Twitter team some validation? I’m also irritated that she expects me to work to verify her authenticity.

Fortunately for @comcastbonnie, someone I knew had already trusted her and vouched that she was on the up and up:

@jackvinson vouches for @comcastbonnie

@jackvinson vouches for @comcastbonnie

If companies continue to use social media outlets to extend their customer service, then they’ll need to work a little harder to be credible, IMHO. If they require any kind of personal or account information in order to conduct business, then I should have an iron-clad way of checking who they are before continuing to use social media to solve the issue. My two cents.

In the meantime, anyone have a good alternative to Comcast? DSL, perhaps? I’ve run my course with this company. Thanks!

Facebook lets you browse through your friend’s connections in order to facilitate more connections your network. The logic seems sound — if your friend knows someone, the odds are good that you know them, too.

Well, sometimes the people you know in common aren’t connections that you want to share. For example, browsing through my brother’s Facebook network, I discovered that he was connected to my ex-husband. We’ve been divorced for over ten years, so I wasn’t expecting to see him in my brother’s list. It was a jolt I had no way of preparing for.

Over and over again, I find that social media throws you together with everyone you’ve ever known, regardless of the context that you may have known them. This can be interesting in some cases, or it can be very, very awkward.

This week, I’m struggling with the awkward side of social media. If you are too, please share — we could all use some social media therapy.

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